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What Kind of Girl...?

Monday, June, 23, 2008

When I saw the movie Juno, I enjoyed its realism – the clueless teenaged father of the baby, the aimless ambiguity of the mother-to-be...

Time magazine claims that a group of girls in the coastal town of Gloucester didn’t take an accidental path to pregnancy. Something like 17 sophomores in that town got pregnant this school year, and Time said they’d formed a pact to raise their babies together.  Some people are blaming movies Juno and Knocked Up for prompting the ill-planned pregnancies, which are about quadruple the normal rate.

Well, it takes more than watching a movie to get pregnant... and given that all of the girls are age 16 or younger, it’s pretty clear nobody’s been watching them.

As a parent who’s on duty 24/7 to make sure my own daughters make the most of their educations, I think it’s time for Goucester (and other towns, including one where I know there’s a 15-year-old mom living with the 20-year-old father of her baby in her parents’ house) to start prosecuting for statutory rape and negligent parents. Because we’ll all pay the price for their recklessness in the form of welfare, alternative education programs and, in the next generation, likely prosecution of their offspring.

Damn! I’m starting to sound conservative, aren’t I? -shudder!- Bottom line is, 15-year-olds aren’t mature enough to decide for themselves about getting pregnant, pact or no pact. Some people say the schools shouldn’t hand out birth control, but when a situation like this comes up, I say don’t ask to hand it out – put it in the water with the fluouride!

In case you think I’ve lost my mind and started channeling Ann Coulter, check out this 2007 report from the National Women’s Law Center:

“There are significant costs to be paid by both the individual and the nation as a whole for each and every student who drops out of high school. In general, dropouts face significant challenges to obtaining employment and achieving economic security. Female dropouts are at particular economic risk. As compared to their male peers, girls who fail to graduate from high school have higher rates of unemployment; make significantly lower wages; and are more likely to need to rely on public support programs to provide for their families. With so many students dropping out of high school each year, the aggregate drain on our nation’s economy—through foregone income tax revenue and increased public spending—is substantial.”


alison skirtboston
alison skirtboston
Posted Mon, 06/23/2008 - 14:23
A coworker (Hi Stephanie) suggests the new TV show Baby Borrowers (starts this week on NBC) as an antidote to teens' thinking that having babies is a fun afterschool activity to do with friends. Can't wait to see that one. In another discussion, with Heather Kempskie, editor of Parents & Kids (wickedlocalparents.com), we decided someone should follow up on the 30 teens who got pregnant at an Ohio school about 2 years ago (the media has a very short memory). Are they still having fun with babies and toddlers? What advice would those girls give to the kids in Gloucester? Better yet, how many finished high school?
senorita
senorita
Posted Tue, 07/01/2008 - 14:41
I am strictly against the teenage pregnancy. The girls who want to be mommies and have all the "mommy fun", should realise that being mommy is fun only if it is done at the right age and right time, which not only involves your own physical, mental, emotional and financial stability but also of your family ( whether you are raising the child as single mom or with your partner), Bringing up a child is no game or joke. It is a serious and responsible job, which can be enjoyed if handled properly with utmost care, not otherwise. Bringing up a child at wrong time can be so much injurious , first to the teenage moms, who are not so strong physically and mentally, second to the baby, who is born weak and brought up unfair, with no fault of his, and then on the family and the society. Its like a suicide and homicide of atleast 4 to 5 people and a very wrong message to the society. In my opinion I am not backward or conservative. All i am trying to say is that motherhood is fun, but you gotta achieve that fun by working hard and sincerely on it. The fun does nt come on its own.