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The Two Most Interesting Things...

Monday, June, 16, 2008

Despite being grumpy and unrested all weekend (I even had to cook on Father’s Day – ugh!), I found some excellent reading that I’d like to pass along.

The first is a fascinating description of the relationship between author Alice Walker and her grown daughter, Rebecca, published online in Salon.com. It seems that they’re estranged because Alice, busy writing and speaking on women’s issues, failed to be the sort of mom that Rebecca wanted/expected. It’s a poignant reminder that we make all sorts of choices in life, and it’s really not possible to have it all. And it’s a good opportunity to consider the sort of relationship each of us has with our mothers, who are as frequently criticized/blamed/castigated as thanked. I guess the handbook on motherhood should be updated and expanded...

The second was in the opposite vein – an hysterically funny, sneak-up-on-you expose of what’s wrong with the music industry today. If you’re not a parent, grandparent or otherwise involved in the lives of impressionable kids, it might be difficult to grasp, but author Monique Doyle Spencer tickles you until you’re crying in this one. Loved it.


psansour
psansour
Posted Mon, 06/16/2008 - 17:14
checking them out now.....
nikki
nikki
Posted Mon, 06/16/2008 - 21:24
a painful commentary on mother/daughter relationships and almost too public. I know I've failed miserably both as a mother and a daughter, and I would be mortified to have those failings publicly enumerated. Maybe there are some women who don't have anything to reproach themselves for and I congratulate them--I'm not among their ranks. There are no sides to take in this, only sadness all the way around.
alison skirtboston
alison skirtboston
Posted Tue, 06/17/2008 - 11:41
it seemed obvious that Rebecca harbors deep resentment for her mother, and made me wonder about the transitions we go through as daughters and as mothers -- when we learn to forgive such a large figure in our lives for being human.