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Heather Nagel-Doughtie
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Mom of two year old "Little B" and leader of the skirt.com pack keeps me out of trouble and teetering on the edge of sanity. It's a crazy but great ride....
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Dating Issues

Wednesday, November, 5, 2008

I’m having a date issue this week. 

Hang with me.

Yesterday we had to punt with the daily muse that was sent out and I wrote up a lovely little Tuesday’s Promise muse.  If you signed up to receive the daily muse, you probably also noticed that instead of saying Tuesday, November 4, 2008, I said Tuesday November 3, 2008 in the email.   

Yes, it was me.   And on election day no less.  Though I’d like to note -- NO ONE caught it in the review before it was sent. Hey, if I’m going down, I’m going to take someone else with me!

Needless to say, we regret the error. Anyone who may have taken offense, please accept my sincere apology.  We’ll work hard to make sure it doesn’t happen again.

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That was the easy one.  Now for the much bigger and substantially more damning error admission. 

Monday was November 3, 2008.  Monday evening around 11:45 p.m. my husband Dan walked past me furiously working on skirt and whispered in my ear, “happy anniversary dear.”

I can hear you all collectively groaning right now.  Trust me, I’m groaning as I type. 

Quickly doing the math (something that has never been my forte) I weakly said, “it’s been a great six years.”  To which he replied, “seven.”  I won’t even go into the fact that I argued with him over this point until he clued me in that we were living in the year of our lord two thousand eight... not 2007.

Did I mention I’m really bad with dates this week? 

The good news:  He had forgotten it was our anniversary until about 11:43 p.m. thus making me feel a little less guilty. The bad news: I need to make use of a calendar and calculator before typing or speaking ever again.

For the record, today is Wednesday, November 5, 2008.  It’s the day after an amazing election which is held every four years on November 4th.  I’ve been married to the most fantastic man for exactly 7 years, 1 day and 20 some odd hours depending on when you read this.

Now if someone would just clue me in as to what day Thanksgiving falls on this year, I think I might be set through the New Year.


sarahthequeen05
sarahthequeen05
Posted Wed, 11/05/2008 - 07:41
Thanksgiving, hon, is Thursday, 11/27, which means that it's just a bit more than 3 weeks away. :)
hnagel
hnagel
Posted Wed, 11/05/2008 - 08:36
Thanks! I'll add it to the calendar I now have surgically attached to me.
onetwothreebirds
onetwothreebirds
Posted Wed, 11/05/2008 - 09:03

Let me introduce you to my best friend: The Franklin Covey Planner (www.franklincovey.com). It's big and in charge, it keeps me in line and on time, it takes some getting used to but the time management class I took when I first started using the planner is one of the best classes I have ever taken-- and I'm about to graduate with something like 150 college credit hours, so I feel like an expert in the "best class ever" category.

The few minutes I spend each day working in my planner save me years of wasted time. I believe they also have an electric version, though I love my paper. (poor trees.)

Hopefully you and your husband will do something fun to celebrate this weekend and, for what it's worth, I'm sure your mix up will take the anniversary pressure right out of your marriage. Who needs it anyway, right? Everyday is a good day when you're with the one you love.

P.S. Didn't notice the muse date snafu; that's a worry you can drop off a bridge. :)

~ Rhi B.
http://rhibowman.wordpress.com

hnagel
hnagel
Posted Wed, 11/05/2008 - 10:23
I gave up Frank in 2003. Now who's laughing?
Christine918
Christine918
Posted Wed, 11/05/2008 - 09:07
I didn't notice the date thing either! Don't stress over it, no biggie. =) I second the Franklin Covey planner! Also Target carries the Franklin Covey 360 line, same basic thing but a lot less. A whole lot less! I love mine, carry it everywhere with me. And Happy Anniversary! http://conversationswchristine.spaces.live.com
hnagel
hnagel
Posted Wed, 11/05/2008 - 10:25
Thanks for the tip. I think I'll be heading there this afternoon! First entry will be November 2, 2009. Notation will be, "Tomorrow's your anniversary. Don't forget, dummy."
Tara
Tara
Posted Wed, 11/05/2008 - 09:26
November 27 (I think?) This is hilarious! Never before have I heard of a WIFE forgetting the anniversary! Sounds like someone needs a vacation. :)
hnagel
hnagel
Posted Wed, 11/05/2008 - 10:26
...did someone mention cruise??? LOL.
Maribeth Pelly
Maribeth Pelly
Posted Wed, 11/05/2008 - 09:57
I could stare at an email for ever and not see a typo...until milliseconds after I hit the 'send' button. Then, there it is...glaring and obvious...and out it goes... We have all been there.... Happy Anniversary!
hnagel
hnagel
Posted Wed, 11/05/2008 - 10:27
Good to know I'm not alone!
ReneeCK
ReneeCK
Posted Wed, 11/05/2008 - 10:11
Yeah, yeah, I know some of the skirt!s are paper totin' mamas but after I ditched the diaper bag, I said I'd carry my wallet, cell phone, and lipstick- anything else that needed to go was the responsibility of IT'S rightful owner. Instead I use my outlook calendar to remind me of things.

And here's a great tip- set the reminders for a week ahead of time- then you have a head start to get gifts, cards, make reservations, whatever it takes to make it special. I now have mine synched with Google calendar too- everything all in one place AND available online. Woo hoo!

Oh, and, happy anniversary! ;)
Renee- writer and WOMAN!
hnagel
hnagel
Posted Wed, 11/05/2008 - 10:30
I would go into the whole corporate - exchange server eating my dates excuse but it's really lame. I love the Google Calendar idea! Think there's a way to wire it directly to my brain?
krrobi
krrobi
Posted Wed, 11/05/2008 - 10:46
That is too funny! I actually forgot my anniversary this year,too. It was about 2:00 PM, and I'm like OHHH NOOO! But I blamed my husband. I called him at work and said, "Thanks a lot. You forgot our anniversary!" When is Thanksgiving, anyhow? :)
hnagel
hnagel
Posted Wed, 11/05/2008 - 10:57
Go on the offense before you get nailed for forgetting! I love it! According to Sarah, Thanksgiving is 11/27 and it's a Thursday. I know this because I've written it on my arm with a Sharpie.
Jodene
Jodene
Posted Wed, 11/05/2008 - 13:35
That is hysterical! My parents usually send a card and that's my reminder that I probably missed the anniversary- but then again, I'm convinced that weddings are for the guest and we usually pay more attention to the day we met. As for organization... can't help you there! Thanksgiving is this month? I thought it was in Nov. HEE HEE!
hnagel
hnagel
Posted Wed, 11/05/2008 - 17:03
Yeah, you're right I should blame my mother and father for not sending me a card as a reminder! Great idea! I guarantee their response will be priceless and probably worth another blog post!
BostonSass
BostonSass
Posted Thu, 11/06/2008 - 13:29
I blame things like this for "having a lot in my head." It might be a bit of a cop-out, but I think it's true...our minds are always racing and working...I hope you guys had a great anniversary!!! :) I kept thinking yesterday was Thursday! :)
hnagel
hnagel
Posted Thu, 11/06/2008 - 23:08
I think we'll end up having a good "make up anniversary" this weekend since we both are feeling kind of guilty!